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darlene_h

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why isnt there a list of sucessful donors with references from happy recipients?

particularly AI ones.

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maybe they like to keep it quiet CSA about and all that [biggrin]
alex_donor

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darlene_h

What you are suggesting is impractical for the following reasons
-donors need to remain anonymous for CSA reasons as stated
-who could be trusted to put such a list together?
-how can the list maker verify the donor child is genuine? They certainly won't be doing a paternity test!
-recipients often disappear once the donation is done. They don't want any custody issues, and may wish to remain anonymous themselves.

If your donor has the relevant tests in place, why do you need a reference anyway?
darlene_h

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They don't need to give their real name, just a real recipient that can vouch for the donor. That he wasn't a sex pest and produced viable sperm.

The recipient could send photos of her with the baby or let the woman add her on facebook or something? 

I'd be happy to do that for a future recipient. After all the sucessful recipient has no thing to fear from me. Most of the recipients I've chatted to on here and other sites have said the same.

If you have benefited from help then it's only polite to help future women by giving a reference.

After all, good donors are hard to come by so it would make sense for them to be used as widely as possible. 


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darlene_h

What you are suggesting is impractical for the following reasons
-donors need to remain anonymous for CSA reasons as stated
-who could be trusted to put such a list together?
-how can the list maker verify the donor child is genuine? They certainly won't be doing a paternity test!
-recipients often disappear once the donation is done. They don't want any custody issues, and may wish to remain anonymous themselves.

If your donor has the relevant tests in place, why do you need a reference anyway?

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rainbowlockets13

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So agree darlene xx
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